Every child needs a person in her life who offers her unconditional love - and for me, that was Gram!! She was there for me - and when my Dad 'misbehaved', I just had to tell his mother and she would take care of it.
I have been experiencing a lot of LESSONS LEARNED lately as I am being STILL enough to pay attention to what is happening. Yesterday was one of those days. I had to go to the cardiologist for a consult (high blood pressure issues). I wanted Bill to come with me - he hears things differently and is my partner in our life. Well, a crown came off of his tooth and he scheduled a dentist's appointment to take care of it (or so I thought he had scheduled it!) So I said, "Sure I am ok to go by myself!" - martyr that I am...not believing that in a hearbeat. It wasn't 'til I was on the way, that I called and left him a message that I wished he were going with me. Long story short - he changed his appointment and came with me to meet yet another Healing Angel on my team!! Turns out this lesson was about several things:
1. Using enough words to be clear with one another - he hadn't scheduled the appt. when he asked me if it was ok, but that is what I heard.
2. Asking for what you want/need rather than saying "IT dont bother me none" like Gram always did so that she/I could make sure everyone else was OK and didn't get upset with me. Really now!!
Maybe this time I have learned?? Maybe...